Interesting theory.
'The only thing..'
How can you prove you are not fooling yourself?
Bud, it doesn't really matter if it's real or not. If you like it, you like it. No one can experience what you experience. No one can deny your experience.
You'll have to get used to uncertainty. Uncertainly drives discovery. Discovery means change. I can see why folks are afraid of change. They like rules.
Some might really need to reconsider if music is a suitable hobby for them given that's its a phycoacoustic experience.